Pet etiquette is very important if you plan to socialize with your furry friend. Dogs are fun and loyal companions, so much so that many pet owners love bringing them along to bars, restaurants, and other public places. It’s become such a popular thing to do that there are many more businesses nowadays that allow pups to hang out, but it’s important to remember that your pet should be well-trained before you take him to a social event. Not only will it help to keep him safe, it will allow you to be social and have fun without worry.

One of the best ways to assure pet etiquette and make sure your dog behaves while you’re away from home is to keep him comfortable. When a pup has pent-up energy, is hungry or thirsty, or has anxiety around new people, trouble will likely follow. Keeping your dog happy will go a long way toward helping him mind his manners while you’re out; it’s also important to teach him some basic commands so he’ll be well-trained, such as how to sit, heel, get down, and stay quiet.

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Expose him to new experiences

While it’s best to teach etiquette while your dog is still a puppy so he’ll be open to it, you can teach an older dog how to be social without being aggressive or afraid; it will just take a little time. Start slowly so you won’t overwhelm him or create a dangerous situation for your pet or for other dogs. You might take him to a dog park, but stay on the outside of the fence with him during the visit so he can see the others but not interact just yet. If he’s shown signs of aggression toward other dogs or people, use a muzzle during these outings to keep him calm.

Walk him every day

It’s imperative to not only walk your dog every day, but to make sure he’s comfortable during the walk. Taking him outside and letting him get used to seeing cars, birds, other pets, and people will go a long way toward helping him get socialized, though it may take a little while. Keep trying, and consider using a harness instead of a collar so that if he pulls he won’t choke himself. You might also think about bringing portable bowls on long walks so that if he gets thirsty or hungry, you can take a break and give him what he needs. Making sure he’s comfortable will help him stay happy, which is imperative during socialization and etiquette training. Go here for some great tips on how to keep your pup safe and in good spirits during a walk.

Find out what’s wrong

If your dog is barking, showing signs of aggression, whining, or exhibiting other behaviors that prohibit you from taking him out, it’s important to find out the root of the problem. He may have separation anxiety or, if he’s a rescue, he may be afraid or anxious to leave the comfort of your home. Go here for some helpful information about what can cause these behaviors.

Set up play dates

Once your dog has been to a dog park or other busy spots once or twice and has reacted positively, it’s a good idea to think about setting up a playdate with another dog who is either smaller or roughly of equal size and has a calm temperament. Set the date at a neutral location (such as the park) so that neither animal will become aggressive over their territory, and be ready to step in should either dog become irritated.

Teaching your dog how to be social and not to be scared in new situations takes time, so try to be patient. It’s a good idea to ask another adult to be with you on these first outings just so you’ll have backup in case there’s conflict with another pet, and always keep your dog on a leash for everyone’s safety.

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